Is She Flirting Or Playing Mind Games With You?
Many men really do not really understand women
when it comes to the game of flirting and dating. Guys are often bewildered by
women and ask agonizing questions like:-
a) Why did she agree to go on a date with me but
cancel it at the last minute?
b) Why she does not return my phone calls when I
left so many messages?
c) She is obviously flirting with me but why is it
that when I make the move, she gets all worked up?
d) Why are women saying one thing, but behave
exactly the opposite?
Women instinctively play mind game all
the time to test guys.
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Have you ever had these questions burning in your
mind? It is indeed frustrating, isn’t it?
Many guys have had the experience of women
approaching and showing interest in them. The girls chatted and flirted with
the guys and even asked for dates.
Then when it is time for the date, the girls
called in and cancel them. After that, the women don't even bother to return
calls.
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The above situation is being played out everyday
and are perplexing men all over the world. What are women really thinking when
they meet guys? Why do they blow hot and cold?
I mean you could be having the best of time
with a girl you've just met and but suddenly she gives you the cold shoulder
that had you baffled. What mind games are women playing with men whom they
have just met?
Mind Games Women Play On Men
The answer to this situation is simply this. Guys
do things by logic whereas women are ruled by their emotions. A guy will
typically think that when a girl is flirting with him, she must be interested
in him. However, that girl may very well be thinking that the guy is
interested in her, so she instinctively flirts with him to test him out.
Yes, women are constantly playing mind games and
testing guys. This is done instictively most of the time and she may not even
know it. Then when she deciphers the result, she will either continue with the
relationship or simply lose interest in the guy she is flirting with or rather
testing with.
So when a woman suddenly gives you the cold
shoulder, then you must have failed her tests. Yes, she may be interested in
you at the beginning and would have given you a few tests in the conversation
which you may have failed to pick up.
Yes, it can be a terrifying idea to know
that almost every woman you meet will play some sort of mind game with you to
test your reaction. It is their instinct and they just cannot help it.
You see, many women play mind games because of a
specific emotional reaction they are trying to create in themselves or even in
you. So if a girl you have just met does not return your call or text
messages, it is probable that you did not build up an emotional connection or
bonding with her.
When she cancels your date, she may be
trying to create a situation where she is in a position of power over you.
This is another test to see how much she can dominate your actions and turn
you into the pursuer although she may be the one who approached you in the
first place. This means that some girls will only date guys who pass their
tests and others simply like the feeling of domination over men.
So to be
successful with women whom you have just met, you will need to know what
motivates her and detect any mind games and the tests she is dishing out to
you. If she wants to dominate over you, let her know subtly who the boss is. I
think you should know that most girls
are attracted to confident men.
So by knowing what mind games women are playing
when they are flirting with you and reacting accordingly, you will get the
dates and relationships you want most of the time.
Best Wishes
The Love
Guru