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How To Attract Women|Girls
How To Have A Successful Date
It is not surprising that most men will often get
very excited when dating women, especially if it is his first date with a girl
he fancies. Guys, although the excitement is electrifying, do beware of pits
and traps you may fall into that may destroy your night of fantasies because
of some innocuous dating mistakes with women which you may not be even aware
of.
So there are things to do and things you
cannont and must not do during dating. Otherwise, you may turn your woman off
without ever knowing why and thus sabotaging you chance for another date or
make her your special girlfriend.
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the woman you desire
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That will be such a total waste, don't you think
so? Therefore this article will guide you on some of the common mistakes men
often make on their dates and make sure that you do not do the same. If you
are ready, let us begin and find out what these dating mistakes are.
Dating Mistakes Guys Make
Perhaps the biggest dating mistakes that guys make
is being too chivalrous. Yup, you've read that right! While it is certainly an
admirable and gentlemanly trait to be chivalrous, many men just overdo it.
Anything for that matter when they are overdone stinks.
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Things like opening the doors for your date,
pulling out the chairs for her to sit, opening and closing the car doors for
her, bringing flowers, paying for the meals and the movie tickets, do this, do
that, pay for this and pay that...bleah bleah bleah.... do you see what I
mean? Hey, treat your date with some respect and not as if she is an invalid
and bankrupt. Leave her some self esteem, man.
Do you think that you are going to
fool her with your sudden urge to be a chivalrous knight in shiny armor? The
girls will know that this is unlikely to be your natural self and you will not
do this to most other girls. You will come across as unnatural, synthetic and
very plastic in trying too hard to please her.
Yes, some girls may like it, but I'll bet
many will think to themselves that they are not crippled and infirmed so much
so that they will need this kind of over attention. The days of the Victorian
era is over. Girls are more independant nowadays and please respect their
rights to be so.
Some, if not most girls may even feel
awkward and insulted. Just be cool and natural. Be who you are and nice to the
girl you are dating. Just don't overdo it and you will come across as a well
mannered gentleman. Click Date
Any Girl You Want.
The next first dating mistake is to be too
well rehearsed. I know that preparation is good, but if you have to memorize
your conversations from a script, will it come across as genuine? Just a
little reminder, girls have far sharper intuition than guys and will smell you
out in no time. How natural can that be?
Okay, If you are the nervous type, and that
is probably the reason why you have a script prepared, then concentrate more
on the actions and activities during the date instead of conversational
aspects of it.
Some men get so nervous on dates that they
become fidgety without even realizing it. Let's put it the other way around,
if your date is fidgeting all over, how will you feel? Women like men with
self confidence and since you are fidgety, you are not displaying the traits
of a confident man and that will be a great turn off.
Then on the other end of the equation, there
are men who insist on showing off to impress the women they date. These guys
talk about themselves and nothing else, about their exploits, about their
careers, about their wealth, about their, well, yawn. Oh, his date has just
fallen asleep. I guess you've got the picture, so
let's we move on to the next dating mistake that you should not do.
Let's talk about the mummy's boys, the
conservative chaps who put on his best appearance by not talking too much or
doing too much because they are afraid of doing or saying the wrong things.
These are the golden boys because silence is golden isn't it? Wrong!
There will be certainly be many awkward
silence moments on dates like these with both parties not saying anything but
looking at each other embarrassingly. If you are out to embarrass your date,
then be the golden boy and keep your mouth shut and very soon, she will shut
you out of her life.
These are just a small sampling of mistakes
guys do when dating women, especially when dating girls whom they fancy. There
are many more do and don't and you must make an effort to find out what they
are so that your dates can be exciting and lead to more dates and until something
magical happens . So don't ever make these deadly dating mistakes ever
self destruct your romantic life.
Best Wishes
The Love Guru
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