Do You Know What Your Woman Want From You

I guess this question existed ever since the beginning of the human race. Some poor guys even spend their entire lives trying to figure out what women really want, especially so if they are dating or even have been married for many years and yet are at a loss over this perplexing issue.

 
Are women really so difficult to understand? Is this the reason why people some people say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus? Although there are so many theories, speculations and stereotypes to justify this conundrum, the fact is that many of these theories contradict each other making the question even more perplexing and yes, flabbergasting.

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The mainstream thinking is that women demand respect and compliance from their men and thus many men play subservient roles to please women so that they can be accepted. However, many of these men simply seem to get rejected and dumped when playing this servitude role. On the other hand, the supposedly bad boys who seem a little cocky and are nonchalant towards women seem to have girls clawing all over them. What gives? Why is this so?

So What Do Girls Really Want From Guys?

Well, after years of studying, ahem, the fairer sex, I have arrived at some of my own conclusions as to what really women want from their men. Let's put it this way, simply imagine what nature has created us to be and that is women are feminine and men are masculine. Huh? What am I talking about? Let me explain.

Firstly, let me ask you a question. When you think of masculine men, who are the guys that pops into your mind? Are they the likes of Brad Pitt, Jean-Claude Van Damme, Arnold Schwarzenegger or even Superman? Okay, I am stretching your imagination a little here, but you do get the picture, don't you?

Whether you like it or not, women are psychologically pre-programmed to adore the classical strong and confident man. Men who have leadership characteristics, who can kick some butts if need to, yet are gentlemanly and who can protect their women. These masculine men give ladies a wonderful sense of security and therefore girls are attracted to them like moths to an open fire.

 
Wait a minute here. I don't mean that you should go out looking for fights and beat up other guys. The days of bringing home the enemy's scalp for house or rather cave decorations are over. All you need to do is to portray that you can give your woman warmth and security, able to bring home the bacon and are respected socially which is enough to turn any woman on.

 
An example as to how you can show this masculine trait is to become a decision maker. Don't ask women out for dates by asking what they want to do or like. Just take the lead and decide where you want to go and simply invite her along. Sometimes you don't even need to tell her your plans.

Be a little mysterious to keep the sexual tension up and she will be very excited and turn on with you. Show women that you are in charge and she will let you take charge. Show women that you are only out to please her and she will label you as a wimp and that is not being very masculine.

Women also need social proof to confirm that you are a well liked leader and are well respected by your peers. If others can respect you, then you are certainly respectable to her. So if other people think that you are awesome, then you must be! Period!

 
This is especially true if other girls like your company and think that you are a great chap. She you take it as an endorsement by other girls that you will make a great mate and she will be lapping up to you even more. So go and mix with the girls and you will attract even more girls.

 
Another thing that you should know is to make yourself appealing to her emotion, not her logic. Women want men to make them feel good and comfortable. Her primitive instinct is that she will spend the rest of her life with this man and if the man cannot make her feel good and secured, then the rest of her life will be a miserable one.

 
Therefore make women laugh frequently because laughter makes people produce more endorphin which is a feel good hormone that is also produced in abundance when people are having sex and if you are able to do that, you will come across as being very sexy indeed. You will be simply irresistible. So when you are able to communicate on an emotional level with girls, you will definitely be much more successful with them.

 
So what do women want from their men? The answer is actually very simple. They want men who can take charge, who are confident, who can make decisions and men who can provide them warmth, security and emotional connection. In other words, they want masculine men, the alpha male.

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The Love Guru