How To Attract Women|Girls
What is on her mind when she flirts with you
I received a call the other day from a client who
ranted his frustration over a woman he got to know recently. Let's call him
Dave (not his real name). He wanted to know why this charming woman who
actually approached him, flirted with him won't return his calls, agreed to a
date then cancelled it at the last minute. I truly understand why he is so
frustrated with her.
Have you had this experience when everything
seemed to be perfectly fine and you are doing everything you thought was right
and yet when it comes to the real thing, the girls simply ignore you? Have you
ever wondered why women seem to take great pleasure by saying one thing and
then turning around doing the exactly the opposite? What exactly are women
thinking about you when she is flirting with you?
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Dave met this girl he adored recently and from
what he ranted to me, the girl showed all the obvious signs of interest in
him. She approached, flirted and picked up Dave on her own accord, flirted
with him and even asked him for a date.
Then at the day of the date, she called up
last minute and cancelled it. After that, she wouldn't even return Dave's
calls and messages. Dave was completely flabbergasted by her actions.
What Do Women Really Want In A Man?
If you have had this experience before, you will
be seriously wondering what do women really want. Now I will be the first to
admit that you will never really know when a woman is going to do something
unexpected. You could be having a wonderful moment together and then suddenly
she will do something completely bizarre! So the question to ask is what goes
through the minds of women when they meet a man?
Well, think of it this way. A man typically
uses his logical mind to make decisions. For example, you will think that
since she is flirting with you, she must be interested in you. That was what
Dave was thinking.
However, women will want to verify the
situation with emotions. So when she flirts with you, she will probably be
thinking that since you have responded to her, you are interested and she will
go another step further to test you out. You may not know this, women always
test men more than you could possibly imagine. Scary, isn't it?
In Dave's case, he didn't recognize
the tests at some point during their initial meeting. This girl was certainly
interested in Dave when they first met and she probably gave a few tests that
Dave did not noticed and thus Dave must have failed the tests.
Mind Games Women Play With Guys When Flirting
The hard cold truth is that almost every girl you
meet will play some kind of mind game with you to gauge your responses and
reactions. Girls are genetically hardwired this way and they just can't help
Most of them even do not consciously know
that they are playing mind games to test men. It is just instinctive in them
to do this. Many women play mind games because of a specific emotional
reaction they are trying to create in you or even in themselves for that
Take for example when a woman is flirting
without wanting to hook up, then she probably wants to feel sexy by having
guys pander around her and groveling to get under her skirt. By the same
token, if she does not return your call, it is probably because you did not
build up enough emotional connection during your first meeting.
When a she cancels your date, she is trying
to create a situation where she is in the position of power and is on top of
the situation with you. So simply put, this girl wants to see how much she can
dominate and dictate Dave's actions and turn him into the pursuer going after
her, instead of the other way round.
So how can you stop this almost
exclusively women's mind game. Well, some women just simply don't know what
they really want while others will only date guys who passed their tests and a
few simply like the taste of playing one upmanship.
To pre-empt this from happening to
you, you must understand what motivate the women you meet, able to pinpoint
the moments when they are testing you and then immediately challenge her when
she starts her flirting mind game on you.
Since you can't control their actions, you
can make it clear to the girls that you will not take any BS mind games from
them sitting down. By doing so, you can now turn the table around and display
your alpha male characteristics that women really adore and fall for. Click
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The Love Guru