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Do You Have The Male Attributes That Attract Women?
What do women want in a man? This must be an age
old question from since the begining of mankind. Every straight man must have
sometime or other considered and even have been baffled by this timeless
question including yourself. I should think that you are still searching for
the answers to " what are the characteristics women find appealing in a man"
and that is why you have landed up on this page.
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While nobody could in anyway answer this question
with a complete answer, there are certain traits and attributes of a man which
women find very appealing that are generally agreed by most psychologists and
as well as from women themselves. This can give us (mostly clueless male
species) men pretty good insights into the female mind.
So what do women want in a man? First of
all, confidence. In a woman's eye, a confident man is a very appealing man.
What I mean is genuine confidence. Let me explain. You see, most men either
have very little confidence in themselves or carry around a false sense of
confidence in their attempts to impress women.
It is
like approaching a beautiful girl you have never met before to start a
conversation, most men will freeze up somewhat or some will strut over to her
with chests puffed up and peacock feathers all flustered to impress her with
corny pick up lines like, "Can I buy you a drink?" kind of false bravado. Get
the picture?
Women
want to see real confidence in a man's behavior and attitude. They are very
sensitive to true confidence vis a vis false bravado. Even if you are a good
actor and can fake your confidence pretty well at first, any woman you
approach and begin spending time with will soon learn of your "true colors".
Having
confidence is much more than thinking that you are the most attractive man on
earth or believing that you can achieve any objectives that you desire. A
genuinely confident man will share his opinions without being argumentative,
enjoys intelligent discussions and is always open to new ideas. Being
geuninely confident is thought to be perhaps the most attractive attribute a
man can have in attracting women. Learn
How To Attract Women Now
Next
on the list women find attractive in a man is, affection. Showing affection to
a woman is not just a matter of physical touch or emotional connection. It is
complex combinition of these two elements. Women want to know that they are
appreciated and this comes through affection, closeness and good bonding of
trust and feelings.
So do
learn a woman's likes and dislikes and direct your actions and behaviour to
these ways. Of course, this does not mean that you have to be too
compromising. It is a matter of give and take. Otherwise, by giving too much,
you will become a wussy (wimp) in her mind. A wussy man is certainly not an
attractive man and is a turn off to most women.
An
example of a small gesture that shows affection would be something like you
wanted to go to take her to a sports game, but she wanted to watch a movie, so
you compromised and take her to the movie instead. After the movie, you take
her home and let her know that you are going to the sports game now and she
will really appreciate that. However, do not compromised too much too often.
As I said, it is a give and take matter and she will know it and appreciate
it. Any pains you take to show true affection will be rewarded and she will
feel special and appreciated. That is the true attraction.
The
next attribute women find very appealing in a man is that the man must be able
to offer her a sense of security. Women these days are very independant and it
is now no longer true that a man must provide everything for his woman. So
being able to provide security these days means much more than just simply
bringing home the bread and bacon or standing up for her and protecting her.
Your
woman will want to know that you are going to work at least as hard as she is
to get the good things in life for her and for your eventual family. If she
finds that you are constantly job hopping or cannot stay on a job for long,
chances are that she will drop you like a bombshell once another man who can
give the sense of security shows up at the door! Athough most women do not
need to take money from their men anymore, it is still very crucial for a man
to prove that he can provide when the situation arises.
Of
course there are many more male attributes and traits that are appealing to
women. The above are just some examples for you to ponder over about what
women want in men. No human being is the same as any other and of course from
time to time, you will come across women who are not looking for "security" or
a confidently affectionate man.
So if you want to really know what women
wants, then click Attract
The Woman You Want To Date.
Best
Wishes
The Love Guru
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