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How To Attract Women|Girls
How To Make Her Want To See You Again
So you have mustered enough courage to ask the
girl you have a crush on out on a date. Well done, because that is the most
difficult part in the dating game and you have already gotten that behind you.
Now at this point in time, you will probably
encounter one of the biggest issues that guys get into whenever they are
trying to be romantic during the first date and that issue is "over thinking".
Make her want to see you again
How
To Get Your First Date
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Questions after questions will be flying across
your mind like "where to take her?", "what to do?", "how to impress her?",
"how to make her want to see me again?" and the list goes on.
Although it is important that you do
something interesting that you both will find fun and exciting, where you go
and what you do matter less than the fact that you are doing it together. Does
that make sense?
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What To Do And Where To Take Her
In other words, the focus of the evening should be
on the both of you spending time together and on getting to know each other
more on a personal level. This is one of the reasons why going to a movie
theater makes for a lousy first date. Yes, rule out taking your date to a
movie on the first date!
This is because there are little
opportunities for conversations when the movie is running and after that, it
may be time to take her home! You have just busted up the chance of getting to
know each other better and to develop better sexual attraction chemistry! So
avoid this dating mistake at all costs!
You see, you have taken the
initiative of asking her out and she liked you enough to agree, then this is
the time when she can show a willingness to advance towards you and vice
versa. You can encourage her to do this by having a wee bit of that romantic
spark. If she is the girl you are really interested to know on personal level,
keep the date light and fun. Do not get too formal or guarded.
Remember this which is another common dating
mistake, don't over dress and don't buy her a gift on the first date. Yes, I
know, this is against conventional thinking.
You see, chances are that she didn't
get you anything and with you coming up to her with a bunch of flowers or a
gift wrapped chocolate box might make her feel kind of awkward. It is as
though you are trying too hard.
You may even run into the danger of her
metally labeling you as a wuss. When that happened, you can kiss goodbye to a
romantic relationship with her. If you do not know what is a wuss, read First
Date Mistakes.
So if you want to give her a gift,
then think of yourself as a gift made in heaven for her. This mindset will
shore up your confidence and girls adore impressive confident men!
This is the time when you go out of your way
to make yourself seem very interesting, but make sure you leave plenty to her
imagination. This is because the more that she is curious about you, the more
likely she will want to see you again. Spontaneity is one of the most
desirable traits girls look for when she starts dating guys and this can be a
good way to impress and win her over early in the game.
Here is an example, when you decided
to approach her to ask her out, simply ask if she wants to do something with
you over the weekend but do not be too specific. Just leave it vague.
This method accomplishes two things.
Firstly, it makes you seem interested in her while simultaneously making you
look very casual and laid back. Isn't that cool? Secondly, it can give you the
opportunity to surprise her with the location and activities of the first
date. Mind you, who doesn't love pleasant surprises?
If you play the game right, you can
make it seem like as if you thought up the idea for your date off the cuff.
The mental image of you in her mind would be of a fun and spontaneous guy!
That is what you should want her to think and really sweep
her off her feet.
The best way to capitalize on this
opportunity is to do something at your first date what other guys will not
even think of. That sets you apart from the rest of them! Taking her to a nice
restaurant may be sweet but she might be just as easily impressed if you take
her wine tasting or to a football game if you know she is a football fan. The
idea here is to be creative when planning your first date.
Next, when you are in your first
outing with your someone special, you may be trying too hard become someone
you are not. You may become extra polite, too pleasing and sucking up to her.
Yikes, this is a great turn off to girls. This is what most regular guys do
and this is definitely what wussies do!
Here is the best dating tip. Just
talk to her the same way you would any of your other buddies. Simple isn't it?
There is no reason to impress her by being too nice.
Yes, she may think that you are being polite
but she may also think that you are one big fake like the other wussy guys
since most people simply do not behave this way except wussies. So just be
respectful and always try to look directly at her whenever you are making a
conversation.
Then there is a terrible but common
misconception about first dates and that is you have to spend a lot of money
to impress her. This is a capital BS and this is also what a wuss would do.
You see, a date can be something as simple
as a trip to a coffee bistro round the corner sidewalk or a leisurely stroll
by the countryside. The idea is not to set a precedent that you need and she
expects you to take her to expensive places!
Here is something that you should
know. If she is comfortable with you in the first date because you did
everything naturally and correctly, she is not going to stop thinking about
you for the next few days until you ask her out again and you can bet that she
will be dying to see you again!
If you do not have anyone to date at
the moment, then click How
To Date Beautiful Woman.
Best
Wishes
The
Love Guru
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