Why Women Love And Are Attracted To Confident
We all know that girls are instinctively attracted
to confident men. This is because a confident male is percieved as being able
to give a woman security and protection and thus is a very manly attribute
which women loves.
If you have low confidence in yourself, no
worries, confident levels can be trained and there are courses to up your
The easiest way to project a confident image
is to correct your posture and dress powerfully. These are outwards physical
portrayals of male confidence, in time will become your natural self as you
experience more and more success. At the same time, will encourage your
confidence level to accelerate even higher.
A confident man is an attractive alpha
An Attractive Handsome Man
A confident man is not only usually very
successful with women, most people will also agree that having self confidence
is a crucial prerequisite to success in no matter what area of your life.
So it is not just success with women, love
and dating, although those are certainly fantastic benefits, but also success
in the world of business, friendships and life in general.
Unfortunately, most of the time you cannot
just fake self confidence for it is something that you develop as you improve
various facets of your life, such as your appearance. If you try too hard, you
will be perceived as unnatural and people will definitely catch on pretty
That being said, there are a few techniques
that can be used to successfully to convey a sense of confidence.
As an added benefit, putting these skills to
use will also gradually and powerfully increase your own self esteem. Now, if
you are commited and really work at it, you will notice yourself really
beginning to believe that you can be successful, which is how true self
confidence is being developed.
To Go From Nerd To Hunk
Techniques To Improve Self Confidence
Firstly, correct your body posture. This is a
very, very successful method of conveying and portraying self confidence.
Many expert coaches on confidence building
choose to teach their students body posture first before anything else because
it immediately indicates a man's confidence level.
Please be aware that good body posture is
much more than merely just sitting or standing up straight. It means standing
tall, with your stomach in and chest out. Now, do not ever over exaggerate
this, just make sure you are not slumped over and letting your tummy sagged to
the floor. Your shoulders should be held back slightly and your head up
You see, many people have a subconscious
slump that not only takes at least half an inch off their height, but it also
makes them look timid and uncertain. Successful alpha males walk with their
heads held high, they shake hands with a firm grips, and they speak with a
confident boomy voice with authority and clarity. These are the sexy male
attributes that make women swoon and fall in love.
You should want to be seen as a confident
alpha male. By doing all of these things correctly, you will soon notice that
people pay more attention to you when you speak and tend to be more likely to
notice you more as you enter a room.
Women will almost certainly love to
gravitate towards you when you are dripping with confident sex appeal. Over
time, this conscious attempt to convey confidence will turn into genuine
self-confidence. By the time that happens, you won't need to pretend to be
confident because your natural self esteem will have skyrocketed.
Next, get dressed in clothing that only
someone who is confident with their good fashion sense will wear. What I mean
is to wear clothes that are a bit edgy, trendy, or slightly different.
However, you will need to be very careful in this because choosing the wrong
clothes can look downright quacky and make you a laughing stock which in turn
will send your self confidence tumbling downhill.
The trick is to find clothes that are both
socially acceptable but also stylishly unique. For example, if you are working
in an office environment, everybody is used to seeing you wear a white shirt,
blue blazer and bland dark pants.
Something edgy and trendy for this office
setting might be a dark blue shirt and a silver tie, or how about a light
colored gray pinstripe suit with a white shirt, light green skinny tie, and a
silver tie bar? You can do this to stand out smartly from the boring offece
During weekends and casual settings,
you can still portray a sense of confidence with your fashion sense. One great
way to start is by going into your favorite fashion store and identifying
clothings and accesories which you think are trendy and cool but that you
would never own yourself before.
There are usually plenty of these in a good
and trendy fashion stores. Perhaps maybe it is that cute hat, a funky belt,
ripped and faded jeans, or even a t-shirt with some outrageous but stylish
Now, instead of saying "I don't think
I will look good in that", why not try it on first. Then ask a friend,
especially a female friend, a store employee or even a stranger what they
think about it. You will probably be pleasantly surprised with their replies.
Do this a few more times and you will end up with a wardrobe that is trendier
and edgier which conveys a powerful sense of confidence.
Wear these items regularly and your
confidence actually will improve. Most people are blown over by the incredible
affect that your appearance and your image can have on confidence and self
One of my clients told me that he used to be
extremely timid, quiet, and unsure of himself. After following my step-by-step
program and making some big changes to his image, he contacted me eagerly
because his woman boss told him that he was hired for a new PR management
position because of his obvious self-confidence! Now, how is that for an
attractive confident man whom women loves!
To learn more about how to get
incredible alpha male self confidence, click The
Handsome Factor Appearance Transformation Program. Not only will it show
you how convey confidence, the step-by-step guide will dramatically enhance
your appearance and your overall image.
As I mentioned earlier, confidence is one of
the most crucial prerequisites to financial, social, and romantic success and
as such, you will be the star
quality center of attraction with women and everybody else.