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How To Attract Women|Girls
What You Should And Should Not Do On First Date
Although this "what to do" on a first date article
is written for guys, girls can also have fun reading this and see how guys
fumble and ruin their first dates and see if it's true from your experience.
So your adrenaline is pumping and you
are getting real nervous but happy because this is your first date with the
girl you have been eyeing on quite some time. You are very excited and hoping
that there will be a second date, then a third and ultimately can claim her to
be your girlfriend.
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But are you really ready for the exciting moment?
This is because if you are not prepared, you could very well ruin your first
date and may never get to date her again.
Here are some first date ideas and tips on
things you should and should not do during this precious moment. So put on
your best behaviour as there are rules in the dating game and there are
restrictions on how you should act and behave, especially so if it is your
first date with her.
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The
most common first date mistake is that too many guys go out on dates spend too
much time worrying about getting a second date that they become too uptight
and unnatural. Hey, relax fella and enjoy your date because girls can sense
your nervousness and they are turned off by it.
You see, when you are comfortable, it
is easier to think clearer and make better choices. This way, you can avoid
doing dumb things that can ruin your first date, such as being nervous!
Planning a date is very important,
especially so if it is your first date with her because she will decide
whether to continue dating you from this very first experience. That is why
you must choose an activity or activities that you can both enjoy together. If
you pick an activity that isn't fun for the woman you are dating, then you can
kiss goodbye to future dates with her.
Don't go out with your date without
taking a shower or putting on clean clothes just because you've rushed out to
meet her immediately after work from the office. Women with their maternal
instinct like men who can and do take care of themselves. If you have bad
hygiene habits or smells like an overnight ash tray, she is going to be
nauseated for the rest of the night.
However, don't put on too much cologne
because this will mask your own natural sexual attraction scent, your human
pheromones. Read this article if you don't know what
is human pheromone.
Be confident, outgoing and make
decisions regarding the night's program confidently. Self confidence is a
manly trait that girls adore very much. Women find confident men irresistible!
So be one.
Do not grumble about your work or asking her
what to do next or behaving in a nervous anxious manner. Just banter with her
as if she is your best friend even though it is only your first date. This
will make you look and feel very natural and she will let down her guard and
be very comfortable with you. That will be when she will be developing
feelings for you.
Guys say and do many rude and
disgusting things with their male friends without even knowing it because
those are your buddies and you do not care about your impression on them.
However, some of these things are taboos in the company of girls.
So if you are rude or disgusting like
spewing profanities at the least provocation, you are not going to make a good
impression on her. If you have to execute bodily functions such as a fart or
burp loudly, just make sure that she is not aware.
A very common misconception amongst
guys is that girls like men with money to spend. This is usually not true.
So if you spend most of the time flashing
your cash, credit cards and talking about your finances to impress her, you
are making a grave mistake because unless she is going for your money, you are
going to bore her to death or worse, she will think that you are a show off
and become disgusted with you. Furthermore, if she is really going after your
money, then you are really in trouble when you show off like this!
This next first date tip may be
common sense, but guys being guys, it is our natural instinct to look a little
longer than usual when we caught sight of a beautiful woman. Well, be very
well guarded about this during your date as most women want a one woman man.
If she thinks that she has to compete for your attention, she is going to be a
very upset date.
Next, if you happened to bump into
your friends while with her, just say hello and then move on fast. Don't spend
all your time hanging out with the guys and talking to them the whole time.
She is your date for the night, not your friends.
Dismissing your buddies so as not to
interrupt your date with her shows that your time with her is important to
you. If you put her aside to hang with the boys more, then she is very likely
to see this as an indicator on how the future will be if she becomes your
girlfriend.
Do understand that being a gentleman
is something that will never go out of style, however, the line is very thin
on being a gentleman and a wussy (wimp). Be a gentleman, not a wussy! If you
do not know what is a wussy, read Biggest
Mistake When Dating Girls.
The ultimate don't on a first date is
to make sexual innuendos or be explicit in that respect. If you are only
looking for a sexual fling, you may try, but if you are looking to keep her as
a girlfriend, don't even suggest it. You are not guaranteed sex when you go
out on a date, especially the first date, less you come across as a pervert
and making sly comments can make your date feel uncomfortable and even
irritated.
Yes, women enjoy sex too but they don't like being
expected to have it, talking about it constantly, or hearing details that are
best left in the bedroom. If you want to attract
her sexually, then you must Master
The Skill Of Sexual Attraction.
Yes, you can act a bit cocky and
funny now and then, she will like it because of your sense of humor. Being
cocky and funny most of the time is for flirting and picking up women, but you
are not picking her up now as she is your date. However, just be careful about
being funny as some jokes and one liners may be cheesy and corny that they may
turn her off.
If she enjoys the night out with you
and she will with these first date ideas and tips, you can bet she will be
eagerly waiting for you to ask her out again. Click this link to learn How
To Master The Art Of Sexual Attraction.
Best
Wishes
The Love Guru
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