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Do Girls Love Cocky Men Who Are Jerks?
You must have asked this question countless times
because you have seen time and again that guys who are cocky and categorized
as jerks by you often have girls around them, isn't it? The answer is yes and
no.
Yes,
women are attracted to cocky guys and jerks because these guys are witty and
exudes an air of confidence which women instictively identify with. In other
words, girls are attracted to "cool" guys.
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These
men are not real jerks like those who are impertinent or simply detestable.
They are viewed as jerks or being cocky by other men for many reasons such as
insecurity, they put up strong competition, jealousy because they get all the
girls, they are so confident that you think they are arrogant and cocky
amongst many other reasons. To put it in a nutshell, these cool guys have the
alpha male chemistry which most men lack. Read How
To Become An Alpha Male.
So
what is a "cool guy"? And what about these alpha males that make women feel
more attracted to them? Well, let me share with you some short stories to
compare what's cool and what's uncool when you want to attract women. The
names mentioned are fictitious to protect the privacy of my clients.
James
is very argumentative and always insists that people see things from his
"better informed" perspective. He is clever and intelligent and this was his
way of showing off his intellect. He will start arguments about anything and
always take the opposing view on every topic that was being discussed. He did
this with women all the time too.
You
know what? This is the real jerk and women hated it. They scramble away
everytime he appears. He is simply not cool because his insecurity was so
strong that he had to argue to get attention.
Take
Joe for another example. Joe always try to do nice things and favors for girls
who caught his fancy. As soon as he meets a woman he likes, he tries to find
something he can do for her. But when the woman does not return his affection,
he will be upset and felt that he was being taken advantage of. This behavior
of course repels all the women he approached.
Why
is that so? Well, women can sense he is trying to manipulate women with favors
and they resent him for that. So this is another real jerk in action, the the
type of "cool jerks" women are attracted to. Women don't think he's cool, and
they avoid him.
Then
there is this guy called John. John is a real wussy (wimp) who loves to tell
women how beautiful they are, buys them expensive dinners and pursues them
with the "You are the greatest girl in the world and I'm going to seduce you
by giving exagerated compliments and use money to buy your attention".
Although
John is supposedly doing all the "nice things" for the women he likes, he is
always unsuccessful in attracting girls for more than a date or two. Why is
this so? Because girls want strong and confident men and not wimps. Simple as
that.
Now,
here are some guys whom many men think of as jerks or arrogantly cocky, but
they are not deemed as such to women and they have girls clamoring all over
them albeit their standoffish behavior.
Take
Tim for example. Tim always have women around him and is very popular with
girls. He always makes fun of the girls he is with. He teases them and treats
them like buddies. Tim is not wealthy and he doesn't buy things for women or
take them out for expensive dinners. But he makes it a point to know where are
the "happening" places and where are the hot spots to hangout. Every girl who
knows him thinks Tim is cool.
Then
there is Tom. Tom simply ignores women when he first meet them. When he is
introduced to a woman for the first time, he will just shake her hand and say
"hi" and then go back to whatever he is doing. Strangely, women that are
around him always want to chat with this "jerk".
What
about Taylor? This guy says things strange things to women like, "You probably
wouldn't like me. Our relationship will probably go no further than the
physical..." Tom is so cool and laid back around women that they have to
pursue him instead of the other way round. He's direct to the extent of
bluntness. He does not after women or buy them expensive presents or smother
them with compliments and yet the girls love his company. To most men, these
guys are jerks and cannot understand why cocky indifferent cool guys like Tim,
Tom and Taylor get all the girls.
So
what is it that separates the "cool" jerks from the "uncool" wussies? This is
because the "cool" jerks portray all the alpha male attributes that girls
instinctively like such as being independent, indifferent, confidence, cocky
and funny.
You
see, being independant means that you are not dependant. When you are acting
dependant, you look for others for their approval, you ask what they think
before you make a decision and you tend to depend on what others feel and
think of you.
When
you are independant, you do the things you want to do, you don't ask others
what they think but instead you decide yourself. Girls love independant men
because these "jerks" are percieved to be men of character and are strong
emotionally.
What
about guys who are indifferent, confident or cocky and funny? Why do these
"jerks" attract women so easily? Well, find out at How
To Attract Women Anytime Anywhere.
Best Wishes
The Love
Guru
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