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How To Attract Women|Girls
Dating Advice - How To Date Women Successfully?
You want to know how to date a woman successfully,
then stop being a wussy! Most men when it comes to dating especially beautiful
women will turn into a wussy.
Women are turned off by wussy men and let
this dating advice sink in. Being a wussy is the biggest mistake a man can
make while trying to date women.
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Definition Of A Wussy Man
So what is a wuss? Let's begin by defining the
word wussy. This slang word is thought to derive from the word "wimp" and is
meant as a guy who behaves in a wimpish, submissive and needy way.
This is a sign of male weakness and girls
are turned off by character weaknesses in men and that is why they disdain
wussy men. So be a confident man during your dates to be successful with women
because believe it or not, women are able to smell a wussy man a mile away.
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You see, attractive and beautiful
women get approached all the time and thus, they need to be able to spot
immediately if a man is worth the effort to date or not. Let just say if you
are a pretty girl, can you imagine being approached every day by needy men.
Yucks! You will be really sick of men telling you that you are beautiful and
asking you for dates with you, won't you?
The problem is that most men radiate
a neediness that most women can feel and part of this neediness are the
signals his body language is sending out. The very important thinfg that women
notice about a man's body language immediately is the eye contact which women
use to test men.
If you steadily hold her gaze till she looks
away, then you have passed the initial scrutiny. If you cannot even hold her
gaze for a few seconds, then you are perceived to be weak and lack of self
confidence. Men who can hold a women's gaze for about 5 or 6 seconds and then
smile are judged to be strong in character and this triggers off attraction
in girls.
Some of the things that wussy men do
are always trying to please women. They are always agreeing with her no matter
how unreasonable she may be and not saying "no" to anything she wants. That is
weakness and not chilvary (lame excuse) and if you want to have
successful dates, then take this dating advice seriously!
Do you know that the more often you
say no to women the more you earn her respect? I am not saying that you should
be unreasonable as there is a fine line to be drawn. This is because you will
come across as a dominant alpha male and she feels more secured with dominant
men.
On the contrary, the more you say yes, the
less she feels you are able to hold onto yourself. If you say yes all the
time, she knows that you can be manipulated to do just about anything and you
can bet 9 out of 10 times you will be taken advantaged of. You wouldn't want
that to happen, don't you?
Many wussies frequently buy expensive
presents to please women. Buying flowers for every date would be an example of
such wussiness, if there is such a word. Also, letting the women get away with
bad or boorish behavior is another example of a typical wussy. So stop
pandering up to her! Be a real man if you want to attract women.
Yes, some women may date or even
marry wussy men but this is not because they are attracted to these kind of
men but because he is either the best she can get, is rich and/or has been
courting her so many years that she finally gives in to him. Whatever the
reason, she will never feel attraction for him.
Girls don't choose who they feel
attracted to neither do they choose the emotions that they feel either. It
just happens instinctively. They either like you as a potential date or they
don't right away. One problem is that most men have to face is becoming a
wussy over time.
Herein lies the deep giant black hole. When
you gradually turn into a wussy with a woman, her emotion and her attraction
for you in her will begin to fade. Never fall into this deep abyss and then to
lose your girl.
For example, a woman will say things
like, "I don't know why but for some reasons he is just annoying me recently."
So when you hear comments like this, it is a sure sign that her interest in
you is fading.
It bothers and irritates women when a man
that is interested in them acts like a wussy. Then as the relationship gets
worse, the more annoyed the woman becomes and this in turn makes the man to
become even more wussy like in order to please her, or so he thought. Never
ever make this dating mistake!
This is one dating vicious cycle that
usually ended up with the woman leaving the poor guy and he doesn't even know
what went wrong which left him thinking that perhaps, if he had just been able
to tell her just how much he loved her, she wouldn't have left him for that
another guy. That again is an imponderable wussy thought if you want to date
beautiful women successfully.
So if you want successful and wonderful dates,
take this dating advice seriously and don't make the mistake of being a wuss.
Being a confident man, you will naturally attract more and more beautiful
girls to date. Try it! If you want to know more, then click The
Secrets To Dating Beautiful Girls !
Happy Dating.
The Love Guru
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