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How To Attract Women|Girls
How To Approach Groups Of Women And Talk With
Confidence
Approaching a girl you like for the very first
time and to confidently strike up a conversation with her can send the shivers
up the spine of most men. Why are men so apprehensive about approaching girls
they like, especially so if the girl of your desire is with a group of women?
The fear of rejection and ridicule?
In this article, I will show you how get
confidence to approach and talk to beautiful girls. For this example, I am
going to use women at the bar. This is just an example because you can pick up
girls anywhere, not just at the bar. If you think that you can approach and
talk to girls only at the bar, then you are limiting yourselves from many
other opportunities to meet women.
How confident are you in approaching her?
Approach
and talk to women anytime anywhere!
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How To Approach A Group Of Girls Confidently
We all know that women do not usually go to bars
alone. They go in groups of girls. Approaching and striking up a conversation
with a group women can be extremely daunting and if you don't know what you
are doing, you can fail terribly. Just like a pack of wild hyenas, they can
rip you apart.
I am not joking for I have seen
unfortunate guys being cussed at, totally being ignored and even drinks
splashed over them. Have I scared you even more?
Don't worry, now for the good news. If and
this is a big IF, you approached the girls correctly, then your success with
groups of women can yield you excellent breathtaking results.
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In my consultations with my clients about
approaching women, whenever I suggested to them about approaching groups of
girls, I often got them looking at me as though I am off my rocker.
I've realized that lots of guys probably
don't have the initial confidence to simply walk up and talk to beautiful
women they don't yet know. So this article will show you how to correctly
approach women, talk with them and leaving a solid good impression with the
girls.
Firstly, let's do some confidence
building exercises. Go window shopping around the shopping mall and when you
catch a woman's eye, smile at her. More often than not, she will smile back.
Don't believe me? Go give it a try.
For a head start, you can practise this with
the female staff in the shops. Even if they don't want to smile, they probably
will and you may also brighten the day for them. Once you have practised
smiling enough and are confident enough, you can proceed to the next step
which is start making eye contact and give friendly smiles to other women in
the mall.
Hey, I am not suggesting big weird freaky
smiles but just naturally friendly ones. You will be pleasantly surprised by
how many women will smile back at you courteously.
As you gain more confidence, just say "hi"
with a smile to women and even men if you like, for the purpose of the
exercise. I know, it will be a horrible feeling at first, but it will get
easier and easier as you see people reciprocating your friendliness.
After you've smiled and said hi to 25 to 30
girls, you should start feeling good as long as you don't give up on your
first negative response. Negative responses you are bound to encounter in the
way that people do not respond to your greetings or looking at you as if you
are a weirdo, but it is rare. This you have to take in your stride because
when you are approaching women to pick them up, you have to learn how to step
out of your comfort zone.
One of my clients did the "smile at
girls in the mall" routine and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his
dreams and a year down the road, they got married! So don't think that this is
just a silly exercise. There are many more of other seduction flirt techniques
you can do to build your confidence with girls, but that is for other articles.
As for now, let's assume that you
have built up your confidence or at least have the guts to approach women you
don't know in a bar. Again, I must emphasise that the best places to pick up
women are not in a bar, it is everyday places where you are not competing with
other single guys. Find out where these places are at How
To Talk To Girls Anytime.
So let's suppose two girls are seated
together at the bar. One is the "ugly" one and the other is the hottie which
you want to appraoch and talk to. You know what, with the confidence you have
built with the above exercise, just go up to her and say hi with a genuine
smile and confident eye contact.
If you see and like her, it is better not to
think too much about the approach or you will be more likely to work yourself
into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you just chicken
out altogether! The question is what to say next after you have confidently
approached a group of women and starting to talk to them? Well, find out in How
To Approach And Pick Up Women Anywhere.
Best Wishes To Your Game Of
Seduction.
The Love Guru
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